July 23, 2014
Iona decided she wanted a break from our relationship, which is just friendship but we have sex. I hate the expression ‘friend with benefits’ because it’s used so much it irritates me. Even writing it just now irritated me. Because benefits means more than one thing anyway, and every part of sex is all one thing, so friend with benefit is more accurate. And though sex is a benefit in any occasion, for some people it’s a privilege, for some it’s an honor, for some it’s a phenomenon. Sex can be an act of deviance or a means of exploitation, a method of expression, a release, an endeavor, an event, a strategy, or an artform. For me it’s a need. Friend who gratifies my need. That’s just stupid. I guess I’m not clever today.
Anyway, she wants a break because she wants to be more than a…
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